Talking to Children About Personal Safety
Helping children understand personal safety is an important part of keeping them safe at school, at home, and in the community. Current Canadian child safety guidance encourages families to move beyond the older idea of “stranger danger” and instead teach children practical safety habits focused on permission, boundaries, awareness, and knowing how to get help.
Safety Tips for Children
Always check with a parent, guardian, or trusted adult before going anywhere with someone else.
Keep a safe distance from people or vehicles you do not know.
Trust your instincts. If someone makes you feel uncomfortable, leave right away and tell a trusted adult.
It is okay to say “no.” Children should know they do not have to go with someone, accept gifts, or respond to requests that feel wrong.
Never get into a vehicle unless your parent or guardian knows and has given permission.
Stay with a friend when possible and avoid going places alone.
Be aware of your surroundings and walk with confidence.
Do not share personal information such as your full name, address, phone number, school, or family details with someone you do not know.
Talk to your children about online safety too: remind them not to share personal information, photos, passwords, or their location online, and to tell a trusted adult right away if anything online makes them feel uncomfortable, unsafe, or pressured.
If someone tries to grab you, threaten you, or make you go with them, shout, scream, and run to a safe place.
If you get lost, find a safe adult to help, such as a police officer, security guard, store employee, or another clearly identifiable adult.
Know important information by memory, including your home phone number, address, and how to contact a parent or guardian.
Families may also wish to create a family password or safe word to use if someone else ever needs to pick up a child unexpectedly.
A Helpful Reminder for Families
Children are safest when they know they can talk openly with trusted adults. Regular conversations at home about personal safety, boundaries, and what to do in uncomfortable situations can help children feel more confident and prepared. Practising simple “what if” scenarios can also help reinforce these important safety habits.